LGBT Dating for Tranny Women and Singles

LGBT Dating for Tranny Women and Singles

Whether you’re straight, lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, or just haven’t really settled on what attracts you yet, the internet was made for you to find love, lust, and a little something in-between. Of course, you can still hang out in bars and do the club hopping thing, but sometimes it’s just nice to be able to have a conversation and get to know someone before jumping their bones. Or at least know that they aren’t going to freak out once the knickers come off.

Of course, anyone who’s ever enjoyed a bored frat boy trolling LGBT+ chatrooms knows that online isn’t always the perfect place to meet people, but this is where dating sites can be perfect. However, you still need to find the Best Transgender Dating Sites to make sure that you aren’t going to be wasting your time or money signing up for a site that is full of trolls, has just the same people you’ve already met, or pretty much leaves you as the only trans person out there.

Dating As Transwomen

Transwomen tend to be the ‘face’ of transgender people. Whether you ‘pass’ as normal, prefer a drag look, or want to keep your facial hair, when the general public thinks of transgender it is always transwomen that spring to mind (really, when was the last time anyone tried to prevent a transman from going into a men’s bathroom). Whether you are taking back the word tranny, are of an age mature enough to consider yourself transsexual, call yourself a lady-boy, or identify in absolutely any way with the many, many, terms that are used to describe transgender women, finding someone who is open and aware enough to use the labels that your prefer, and avoid the ones that you find offensive is surprisingly difficult. The straight world may think that there is some big LGBT+ agender, but we all know that we’re still can’t agree on what terms are slurs, and we still don’t talk about transmen (click here).

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When you’re signing up to a dating site for the first time, do try to be a little cautious. Sure, put up a gorgeous photo, but don’t put up one that makes it too easy to identify where you work, where you live or where you regular hang out. There are a lot of crazy’s out there, and although most people have really positive experiences using online dating sites, there are still the odd horror stories. So normal rules apply, meet in a public place, don’t hop in strangers’ cars, and if you’re just meeting for a hookup, make sure someone knows where you’re going and will check in with you to make sure you’re safe.

LGBT Dating for Tranny Women and Singles

Dating As Fetish

Sometimes all you really want is to have your body worshiped, and this is where becoming someone’s fetish has its benefits. Although many in the trans-community loath chasers, they do have their place – as long as you know that’s all they are and that’s all your expecting. A chaser is only going to be there for a quick fling and no matter how much they may plead, there really isn’t any long term future with the fast majority of those that really see the transgender form as a sexual plaything rather than seeing you as a full human being with all the complications that come with that.

Of course, with the ones that only want to try you as a bit of a new kink, make sure it’s on your terms. You deserve more than sneaking out a back door so their neighbors don’t see you leaving. Get a nice hotel room and enjoy your time.

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Dating As Transmen

What about transgender men? If you’re gay you might not struggle quite so much – although there is still a lot of prejudice about what is in your boxers not matter what attraction exists, but if you’re a straight transman you can find all sorts of problems. Strangely enough, many of these problems tend to stem from your own insecurity and trying to explore your own masculinity and how you react to women as a man. Part of the biggest problem is trying to break down the toxic views of what masculinity should be that we are bombarded with in mainstream media. You will find some women that have bought into this concept – but equally, you’ll find many women are delighted to be with someone fighting against it.

Of course, in the world of online dating, the key is going to be how attractive you are to someone. This doesn’t mean that you need to look like Jamie Dornan or Idris Elba (who are apparently the sexiest men in the UK at the moment https://www.heart.co.uk/showbiz/top-sexiest-men/), but it does mean that you need to look like you, and the best you that you can. Include photos of you looking pretty hot, posed is fine, but also include some natural shots of you just enjoying life. Yes, appearances absolutely matter, no matter what anyone says, but your profile picture is only going to get someone clicking to see more, it’s not going to get you a second date. Don’t go overboard and use photos that have been heavily photoshopped or are years out of date, but a little fake tan is fine.

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Sexuality Matters

No matter what genitalia you were born with, and what gender you now identify as (if you have just one), you are attracted to who you are attracted to. If can be confronting for a newly out man to discover that the nice guy he’s attracted to used to be a woman, as much as you can find straight folks suddenly worried, they’ve been ‘turned’. Unfortunately, you will likely encounter people who know matter how blatantly you state your preferences and that you are trans, will somehow have focused on your pretty face and not read those really important and useful words that you agonized over. You can try and weed them out as best as you can, but ultimately, dating should be fun.

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